Habits vs Accomplishments

I seem to be doing well on the Accomplishments.  Probably would've done better if I hadn't taken a 8 months off during my social coma or if I actually remembered this project existed.

Seems like I have to start working on the Habits portion of the "101".

There seems to me that there is a little confusion on how long it takes to make a habit part of a continuing lifestyle.  Is it 21 days or 28 days. And after that period of time how long do you continue to do it so that it's a lifestyle and not just an occasional thing.

There's 19 Habits that I want to develop.
Normally I would try to do EV-ery single one of them all at once and get completely frustrated and give up.

I don't want that to happen.

So the question now is... which one (or should I do two) should I start with?

2 Start volunteering at the animal shelter again, at least one day a week.

5 Volunteer at the Capuchin Soup Kitchen 3 times (0/3)

9 Eat at home for one month, no carryout, no restaurants, na da

12 Keep track of my spending for a week

13 Create a workable budget

14 Visit my Grandma at least once a month UPDATED 2/27/08

15 Keep up on my OaPH blog and Candlelight blog

19 Wash & Vacuum the truck once a month

26 Learn what a mop is… trying using it once a week

31 Complete one year of Project 365

34 Send out five packages for Anysolider.com

44 Compliment one stranger a week

61 Quit smoking... except when I'm drinking

63 Go on a bike ride two times a month during at least Memorial Day through Labor Day

64 Donate blood when I can

65 Consistently walk the dogs 3 times a week

66 Walk to work twice a month 

71 Start learning Italian - one word a day  

90 Get out of bed when my alarm goes off the first time