#21 - Call someone that I've lost touch with
February 27, 2008
Ok... he started it but it's still pretty cool anyway.
The Prom Date contacted me!!
Lemme explain - the Prom Date was more then just a friend but never never turned into the bf/gf. There was potential but the timing was completely off (and I was completely stupid).
We'll "Spray the Beast" and enjoy a little "Twist of Cain" cuz "Just like me we long to be close to you" and "We don't fuckin' care" "Oi! Oi! Oi!"
December 21, 2007
I'm not sure if I can really count this one or not... Might have a do-over somewhere down the line...
I sent a text message to someone that's been trying to get ahold of me for awhile but that I've been blowing off. I started thinking about things last Friday, it's sort of one of those toxic things to keep ignoring someone besides it's REALLY immature.
So last Friday I sent him a text message and he responded.
After sending a few dozen back and forth he asked if I wanted to meet up at Somerset the next day, he had some Christmas shopping to do. So I met him up at J.Alexanders, we had a drink, talked, went to Starbucks, got some more coffee and then sat down near Nordstroms and talked some more. I guess it was ok. Nothing spectacular. Nothing stimulating. Just ok. When we left he said that the ball was in my court as to if I wanted to hang out again.
Monday morning I got an e-mail from him. "What's up? Hows your day?" I didn't respond.
Thursday morning I got an e-mail asking if I wanted to meet up before he went up north for Christmas. Again, I didn't respond.
This morning I got a text message "So u don't want to see me again?"
I thought about it. The pro's the con's, the pluses and minuses and sent a message back to him.
"It was nice to catch up but just so you know I don't think we'd be anything more then just friends."
It's true... there's nothing there that challenged me, that made me believe that if I hung out with him it wouldn't be going to movies or sitting on the couch. There's only so many times I can throw out lines to movies or make obscure references to Seinfeld. I'd be bored out of my mind if I hung out with him more then once every two weeks. I guess if I wanted a free meal every now and then I'd stick with it... but I need more then just a frat boy.
The reason why I think this should be a do-over is that I kinda knew up front that was what I'd take from meeting up with him. It's gotta be better then this
Ok... he started it but it's still pretty cool anyway.
The Prom Date contacted me!!
Lemme explain - the Prom Date was more then just a friend but never never turned into the bf/gf. There was potential but the timing was completely off (and I was completely stupid).
We'll "Spray the Beast" and enjoy a little "Twist of Cain" cuz "Just like me we long to be close to you" and "We don't fuckin' care" "Oi! Oi! Oi!"
December 21, 2007
I'm not sure if I can really count this one or not... Might have a do-over somewhere down the line...
I sent a text message to someone that's been trying to get ahold of me for awhile but that I've been blowing off. I started thinking about things last Friday, it's sort of one of those toxic things to keep ignoring someone besides it's REALLY immature.
So last Friday I sent him a text message and he responded.
After sending a few dozen back and forth he asked if I wanted to meet up at Somerset the next day, he had some Christmas shopping to do. So I met him up at J.Alexanders, we had a drink, talked, went to Starbucks, got some more coffee and then sat down near Nordstroms and talked some more. I guess it was ok. Nothing spectacular. Nothing stimulating. Just ok. When we left he said that the ball was in my court as to if I wanted to hang out again.
Monday morning I got an e-mail from him. "What's up? Hows your day?" I didn't respond.
Thursday morning I got an e-mail asking if I wanted to meet up before he went up north for Christmas. Again, I didn't respond.
This morning I got a text message "So u don't want to see me again?"
I thought about it. The pro's the con's, the pluses and minuses and sent a message back to him.
"It was nice to catch up but just so you know I don't think we'd be anything more then just friends."
It's true... there's nothing there that challenged me, that made me believe that if I hung out with him it wouldn't be going to movies or sitting on the couch. There's only so many times I can throw out lines to movies or make obscure references to Seinfeld. I'd be bored out of my mind if I hung out with him more then once every two weeks. I guess if I wanted a free meal every now and then I'd stick with it... but I need more then just a frat boy.
The reason why I think this should be a do-over is that I kinda knew up front that was what I'd take from meeting up with him. It's gotta be better then this
posted by Someday This All Will Make Sense at
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